I stole both the headers off google because I needed to throw something together quick. SUE ME. Anyways, I meant to do one of these last week, but work has been really busy. In celebration of hitting 200 followers, I’d like to give something back! So, there will be three different ways to get this prize, and only one winner. (I’ll do other winners if this gets to have high notes, but I doubt.)
Prizes:
Mog station items worth 50$!
Art of your choice equaling out to 50$!
50$ directly so you can decide what you buy with it!
Again, there will be only ONE (1) winner and that one winner will pick which of the above they want.
How it’s going to work:
Be following me. New followers can join in!
Reblog the post.
Like the post.
The deadline for this will be September 20th; a time to be determined later because I am literally half-assing this right now! Good luck, and I love you all!
So, I didn’t actually expect this to get many notes, wooooweee. So you guys win!! I’ll do two winners and the prize will be the same as above.
Two winners. Two 50$ prizes of winners choice from the list above. Total of 100$ in prizes!!
Also wanted to add in addition to the ‘rules’ above, I’d like to add that I won’t be accepting giveaway blogs into the pool of names. I’ve found a few already and I want to apologize in advance. No giveaway blogs.
Not… sure how 200 notes. T-thanks guys. T_T
I’ve decided MORE PRIZES.
I’m going to pick one person at random once I’ve picked the winners and do something nice for them. I’m not going to tell you what, but it’s more than likely going to be for a FFXIV follower only, and I’ll just get them something off the mogstation.
Relationships get so bananas when you start deciphering the other person’s love language.
Like I thought I was just acquaintances with this person because they never told me details about themselves and we just talked movies and writing . But then they made time to have coffee with me and they showed up out of breath because they ran. Like. RAN to be on time for coffee with me?
And I was like “i don’t mind waiting” cause I never want to run
But they said they wanted every minute they could get because I’m so busy usually
Which is when it clicked that I didn’t get how much they considered me a friend because I just straight away didn’t see MY signs of affection in them and went “cool! Casual buds it is.” But now that I’m seeing their signs of affection, I feel a little silly for dismissing them like that even though I felt like we could be best bros.
Anyway, some people show affection through time or intensity or commitment and not vocally. I really have to remember that!
Fyi- just in case you didn’t know.
TOUCH got a bro that likes to give high fives? Back slaps? Are they a hugger? Do they not blink an eye at cuddles?
QUALITY TIME this bro will (as op stated) sprint to spend every minute possible with you. Every second that you guys are together is a declaration of affection.
WORDS does your bro tell you how amazing and great and fantastic and wonderful you are all the time? Guess what…?
GIFTS do they buy you coffee? Snacks, energy drinks, spot you at the restaurant? Did that one key chain removed you of them? Ding ding!
ACTS are they always doing things for you? Ie: Nah bro, I got this, I can do that, need me to get anything for you, I can help with…?
PRO TIP – The way people show love is often how they receive love as well.
I reblogged this recently but it got better and ive been thinking and learning a lot abt love languages so
Hence why Toph Beifong is my favorite badass character ever. Followed by Zuko of course. 😝
I love that Toph believes that she is one of the most badass people ever to exist in the Avatar universe, is not shy about saying so, and is absolutely correct.
Shit, just watch the way she curbstomps Korra without even trying.
The reason Toph Beifong has lived so long is that death is rightly afraid of trying to claim her ❤
as a lesbian who was in a 5 year relationship that ended a couple of months ago, my advice to fellow gays is to BREAK UP YOUR OWN WAY. when my ex and me broke up, we didn’t know how to navigate it because the model of heterosexual breakups was all that was available – the damage, spitefulness, ignoring each other, moving out straight away and fighting over household objects/pets, talking shit about each other etc. I really pushed for us to do what felt natural to us. after all, the reason we were both sad about breaking up was losing the FRIENDSHIP part of our relationship – so why couldn’t we keep it? it was such a healthy breakup. we only argued once when we were drunk and insecure. we still live together (along with my cousin/housemate). we still catch up on our fav tv shows and order take out. we don’t talk shit about each other. my family and her still chat and we still attend family events together. she still physios for my brothers footy team. we just fell out of love and our relationship turned into a friendship. you don’t HAVE to lose that. do your break ups your own way, gays. don’t look to het relationships to guide you. they suck.
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